The best age to get married is at the age of 24, but in today's generation the mentality of maturity only takes place at the offset of 30. I got married at the age of 28, it was a match-making adventure and I took it at my mother's expense because she wanted me to get married one day. I was so busy working at the bank and from morning till night that when I reached the age of 26, my Mom decided to find me a life-partner. She and I went to enrol in a agency which she read in the Chinese Newspaper and we didn't get cheated. The club was now closed due to insufficient of funds to maintain the male counterparts.
I went dating with ten guys and I was naive. All of them asked me whether I could cook. Some gave me security because most of them are very formal and working class people. One offered me his car but I have to live with his sister. I should help with the groceries in using his car. I should contribute to petrol. I went out with an electrician/technician but it didn't work out. He relentlessly gave me up and say I was too naive.
I don't talk much but most of them pay for my food, only ONCE. Then I ended up with one guy who became my husband for 12 years of my life. He still is a part of me but I now stayed with my parents; back to square one. I have two sons aged 12 and nine going to a chinese private school. My eldest son is taking his UPSR this year, I hope he fares well. He's living up to it with all the privacy to it, living with Nanny Mcphee. My mother-in-laws has only TWO grandchildren of her OWN kin, that is my two sons who are now living under her care and guidance.
I LIKE MY LIFE NOW. It is Sweet Serendipity, Lee DeWyze. I am making up to my absence when Nanny Mcphee passes away and I am called home.....Happy family making.
