22nd APRIL 2011 (GOOD FRIDAY)~One week before the Royal Wedding in Britain.

THE ROYAL WEDDING ON 29 APRIL 2011 (Friday), PRINCE WILLIAM AND PRINCESS KATE MIDDLETON.

Prince William and Princess Kate Middleton is getting married on 29 April 2011 (Friday) the next friday after my 42nd birthday. I've already decided to buy a chocolate cake that looks like this and celebrate it with my friends as below:

WE ARE GONNA PARTY AND HAVE A GREAT TIME! Wedding Bells for Prince William and Princess Kate Middleton but Party Bliss for MEEEEEE!

It's easier to dream of romance whether true or fantasy; some things you think but never consider writing. And to write about the bonds between just the guys that I've known, under the subject of romance, was quite challenging, until I began to write. There are many things, feelings and emotions shared; not in secret but openly that reveals a great deal about that bond. And after having compared it to the bonds that I've shared with women, I added them all, and called it "PLATONIC LOVE".

As for Valentine's day being just round the corner, I have prepared a poem specially for you: Platonic Love can be changed to sexual love in the end....

THE HANDSOME PRINCE.
Way off in the distance
In a far away land
There once lived this prince
That nobody could stand.

Oh he was worth a fortune
And was handsome as could be
But he had no love of his own
The one to set his heart free.

He lived way off to himself.
And made such a mournfull sound
He paced his floors up and down
But, no princess could be found.

Then came a knock upon his door,
So, he ran to the door with glee
There stood a raggid young lady
The poorest sight to see.

She begged him for food.
Her clothes were dirty and torn;
He told her to go away,
As he slammed the door and scourned.

Then she began to cry,
That same ol mournfull tune
As she looked up towards heaven
Staring at the face of the moon.

Soon the door began to open
As he motioned her to come in
She wiped away her tears
And gave him half a grin.

From that day on
Both their lives were changed
Now ain't it funny how life
Can make things re-arrange.

PRASANGKA YANG HILANG.
Makna apakah yang tersirat dalam kabus tipis di kaki gunung,
Sesejuk salju bukan membeku melihat takdir menjadi nyata;
Sesudah bencana menghempas ke tulang belulang akal,
Dalamnya bisa membunuh yakin.

Kini nyata menyerap mimpi menjadi bukti jua sakti,
Melihat kebaikan mereka mencari diri;
Walau terasing tetap berdiri,
Aku yang dulu disalah erti ikhlas disanggah prasangka
Kini direnjis tawa dan senyum...

SELAMAT MENYAMBUT HARI VALENTIN!

I AM A HUMANITARIAN.It feels good to make people happy.

Angelina Jolie, born Angelina Jolie Voight on June 4, 1975 is an American actress. She has received an Academy Award, two Screen Actors Guild Awards, and three Golden Globe Awards. Jolie promotes humanitarian causes, and is noted for her work with refugees as a Goodwill Ambassador for the United Nations High Commissioner for Refugees ( UNHCR ).She has been cited as one of the world's most attractive people, as well as the world's "most beautiful" women, titles for which she has received substantial media attention.

I,like, Angie, likes to be humanitarian too. I am a humanitarian in itself. Helping people makes you feel good, says Karen Burns, an autobiographer. I think God had put us in this world to be able to do good , not evil. I am not rich, I am not famous, I don't come from a rich family, I have enough to survive, as well as a family surrounded by love, I don't ask for the sky or the moon or the universe, I thank God that I have a pair of hands, a strong will power, and a natural gift of nature - a spark of humanity...

HOW TO REACH A NATURAL HIGH.( Know Your Limits )

We all want to feel good and occasionally have a feel of bliss and euphoria. Many people turn to drugs or alcohol to get this state of mind - Natural High. A natural high comes from the release of endophines, body chemicals that are known as "FEEL GOOD" chemicals since they give you a sense of well being and can even induce a blissful state. Here are some healthy ways to get a natural high :

1.  Get out your running shoes.
2.  Listen to classical or new age music.
3.  Meditate.
4.  Learn to laugh.
5.  Get a massage.
6.  Give something away to someone who needs it.
7.  Smell a fragrance / perfume.
8.  Having sexual intercourse at the G-Spot.
9.  Success! Being happy after winning a game / contest.
10.Getting good results in an exam - Be an achiever!
11.Going all out shopping and buying new clothes!
12.Having a sumptuous meal - HUNGER SATISFIED!

What are the Causes of a High Libido in Women????

Libido is a major concern for men and women when it's too high or too low. There are many causes of a high sex drive, but a slightly high libido is NORMAL to a certain extent.(LIMIT). Every woman is different and some women are naturally more sensitive to sexual stimuli than others. This means that touching, kissing and other things can cause a woman with a high libido to become sexually aroused more quickly, while other women struggle to get into the mood.

Somebody says that I have a mental problem. A few months back, I had worked with a doctor, I found myself becoming inspiring, humble and kind. I was one of the kindest people she met in my journey of life. She not only made me listened, but I never restricted her of her many questions and I always "answer" her. She said to me before leaving, "Ling, you are going to help many people. Don't ever give this up, or forget that you also inspired me in your journey..."


HOW TO PERSEVERE TO SUCCEED DESPITE STRUGGLES.
I'ts a piece of cake to maintain your enthusiasm when everything's peachy. But when challenges arise, it can become increasingly difficult. It's best to be prepared for bumps in the road, just because you're bound to hit them from time to time as you go through life.

The best thing you can do is work on your skills to boost and maintain your enthusiasm.It's such an important skill to have because it's your driving force that strengthens your will to succeed.

The key to finding happiness is to take action toward the things you enjoy. It's tempting to do nothing, which can be fun from time to time but overall it's an active life that brings the most pleasure and fulfillment!!!!

HOW TO COPE WITH A DISRESPECTFUL COWORKER.

No matter how hardworking, kind, loyal, dedicated, honest and utterly fabulous you are - there may still be people on your job who do not treat you with respect. This can be frustrating, but it shouldn't wreak havoc on your self-esteem or ruin your day. In fact, it really shouldn't even make you bat an eyelash.

As Karen Burns, career blogger and author of the book, THE AMAZING ADVENTURES OF WORKING GIRL, writes about disrespectful coworkers : "Recognise that something is wrong with that person.....(and) go about your life as if the problem person is not even there." In other words : "It's not you, it's them." Coping with a disrespectful coworker can be difficult, but once you learn how, you can go back to being your charming, amazing, focused, respectable self. Let these be tips that lead the way!

Detach, detach, detach! You absolutely must not let another person's disrespectful attitude penetrate your soul and damage your spirit. I should not bother and let it pass. Detach ourselves from it. From the problem situation before it dampens your spirit even further. It's really depriving. Sometimes it's good to break down in our own solitude. Crying helps to return our spirits to our innermost self.

Karen Burns writes," Don't let them see they are getting to you." I agree and encourage you to take it another step further: Don't let them get to you, period. Another person is just another person; another person is not a superpower, all-knowing god. Another person's opinion of you or behavior towards you has no bearing on who you really are.

Say, "It's not me, it's them." There are all kinds of reasons why people act disrespectful, but usually it boils down to the overblown egos they build to hide their insecurities and internal fears. People can be self-absorbed, unaware, immature, jealous or just clueless.Whatever the reasons, remember, another person's behavior is another person's behavior. It has nothing to do with you, so don't take it as a sign that something is wrong with you.

Sometimes it is outraging. Sometimes it makes you boil. I know there are times when stressfulness makes you boil. Take a breath. Drink a glass of water. Swallowing water cools down the system and I think people can relate better when they've settled their systems down. So now, you can think rationally. Without starting a fight.

Miranda Cosgrove -- Dancing Crazy (new song! 2010 with lyrics) HQ

Dancing like crazy...