My true self ~ Lynette/Elaine/Liew Wan Ling ( Images )

This picture is taken at AEON JUSCO RAWANG on the 19th. December 2011, age 43.

I looked rather plump and chubby because Mom fed me well.

This picture is taken with Kenneth, at the beach in PORT DICKSON, Seremban, Malaysia...I was expecting Edward in my belly. My face looks still the same through the years, same hairstyle all the time...

My Family....( I felt like showing off some pictures of myself. )

Your fears are just guideposts to growth. Surpass them and embrace your INNER LIGHT ! My Heartprints.......Heartprints of compassion, of understanding and love.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO A NEW WORLD !

Eating has always been my hobby. Whenever I am sad, I eat, whenever I am happy, I also ate, HAPPINESS is in eating......EATING is sheer pleasure of the soul!

Eating is HAPPINESS! Happiness is in eating the things that you loved, happiness is sharing your food with the ones you loved, HAPPINESS is eating together out as a family, Happiness is being able to pay the bill for the food served. Happiness is in eating. EATING has never been so happy. When you're hungry, you eat, and you are happy. HAPPINESS is in EATING, whether outside or at home even munching on tidbits or even a light handy Snack! What sheer pleasure is in eating. Eating is HAPPINESS.

Although the sun sets, HAPPINESS WILL COME AGAIN.....Happiness is like a butterfly; the more you chase it, the more it will elude you, but if you turn your attention to other things, it will come and sit softly on your shoulder..... Happiness is a butterfly which when pursued is just beyond your grasp but if you sit down quietly, may alight on you! ):D

HAPPINESS IS MINE!!!!!!!!

"AGING GRACEFULLY.....WITH LOVE."

Journal Entry.

I am 43 years of age. I was born in the year of the rooster, 1969 on April 22nd. I am a Taurian. I am a Christian. My Dad is 70 and my Mom is 68. My younger brother is 38. I stay in Bandar Country Homes, Rawang and I live in a bungaloe. My mother cooks everyday almost two meals a day and I helped her a lot. I helped my mother mopped the floor and cleaned the house especially my own room. I am currently sleeping with my mother, we both shared the same room downstairs, but when my sister comes home for the holidays, we are sleeping upstairs in my bedroom and I lend my mother my bed and I sleep on the floor on a mattress. It is comfortable and I find it cosy on the mattress on the floor. My mother is old so she shall sleep on the bed with me in the same room. We share almost a lot of things together and I PRAISE THE LORD FOR MOM. I THANKED GOD FOR MY MOTHER. I really mean it. For she is the only one who showers her love on me and treat me as her precious daughter. Flesh and blood.

Journal Entry. ):D

It's been two years since I came back to my hometown to live with my Mom and Dad and younger brother. It felt like years. I have aged gracefully and logically, I have increased in wisdom and knowledge. I felt so much older and wiser through the years and as the years went by, I felt at ease. Although boredom and fatigue is my constant companian but I shall not shed any tear. Few people have what it takes , and I have what it takes to overcome lethargy and boredom with so much victory. Praise the Lord at all times. I am now a fully grown woman of God. Mom has never been so proud of me as much as now than before and I had shown her less worry by conforming to her needs. I am still a servant of God. I have now financial freedom and if I don't use my money, my money will grow. I have now almost seven hundreds. By Christmas and when it comes, I shall be able to use my money for my sister's glory, for she is coming home for her holidays from South Africa. She is working and also raising her own family. God bless her soul as well as her daughter's.

BELIEF - POTENTIAL - ACTION - RESULTS ; SUCCESS is a JOURNEY, not a destination......!

I, Wan Ling Liew will try my very best to achieve my dreams in life.....as well as reach my goals......!

This year, I'm 43 years of age, following the chinese calendar by CNY 2012. My 43th birthday party ideas would be SWEET SERENDIPITY by Lee DeWyse.My duties have been fulfilled, I am FREE ~ Absolute FREEDOM! ):

I have graduated once again!!!! My mortar-board on top of my head! Venue picture taken : At IKEA - Ikano Power Centre! Furniture department. My most recent hair-style for longevity....... OLD AGE!

Today I helped my MOTHER cleaned the lawn and the porch and she PAID ME!!!!! I then went out, enjoyed myself and bought myself again some crispy seaweeds! ):D

My lawn in my house.....

My porch at my house........

I helped my mother cleaned the drains, the lawn and the porch and my mother paid me........!
I went out, enjoyed myself and bought my family and I, crispy seaweeds to devour and savour!!!!!!

Enjoyed a cup of tea and fulfillment to a cup of coffee with my MOM!!!!!!!

My Mom bought me two Mugs of the same colour and the same brand. I drink MING XIANG Chinese Tea and feel TIGGERIFIC!!!!! I had Tea and also pour coffee for my MOM and myself!

The FRUIT of the SPIRIT is LOVE, JOY, PEACE, PATIENCE, KINDNESS, GOODNESS,FAITHFULNESS, GENTLENESS, and SELF-CONTROL. ):

I learnt a lot today from gathering rambutans by the plentiful and plucking from its rambutan tree outside our porch and climbing the ladder to get to the branches of dangling rambutans. I love the EXERCISE and I badly needed the fresh air. Anyway, we even gave our neighbours some of the branches of rambutans. Dad had his loadful of fruits to savour as much as I had gathered the fruit of my Spirit, which is Love, Joy, Peace, Patience ( a lot ), Kindness ( I'm gifted ), Goodness ( my school's teachings ), Faithfulness (my faith), Gentleness (my Mom's genes) and SELF-CONTROL ( the most overwhelming )!

I LOVED THE LORD! I didn't get the job, I've returned to be a Stay-at-Home-Mom, and I'm still loving it because the JOY of the LORD is my STRENGTH! ~ <3

Thanks for Hardship and Pain ~ it has taught me Christ's Suffering was meaningful and the reward is kinship. What matters most is that my PURSUIT of HAPPINESS has brought me to realise its JOY in the REALITY of this PURSUIT. ( CHANCES & OPPORTUNITIES ). I am honoured to be given a chance to partake this fruit of the Spirit which I have GATHERED and inherited from God. ):

This is my Picture of CHRIST!!!!!! Jesus Christ at the cross of shame.

Jesus Christ , I had loved You.........

ABBA - Elaine

Elaine, Elaine, Elaine, ....here I am! :)

I'm going on HOLIDAY in DECEMBER, come Christmas time! I'm flying on an AIRPLANE! Yeah! )=

I'm flying with my Mom and my FAMILY and my SISTER and her daughter come Christmas time. We just might FLY ON AN AEROPLANE!!!!!! Happy Holidays to come! YEAHHHHH.

I ALWAYS DRESS IN TEE. IT IS MY WAY OF LIFE. :) D

My mother has taught me how to dress up well. I ALWAYS DRESS IN TEE. It makes me Young and I shines out. I feel pleased that I had YOUTH on my hands...PRAISE THE LORD!

My Most AWESOMEFUL Photo from the Internet :)

HOW GREAT IT IS TO BE LOVED..........!

Hi,my name is Wan-Ling Liew,elaine and I have leisure to surf the net. :)

Everyday I used the internet to surf and read about life's views and questions I want to ask and seek answers, I will find and read from the net. So far, my questions have all been answered efficiently by professors and researchers and ideologers. I like to read inspirational quotes and inspirational poems from the website. It makes my being whole and lifts up my dampen spirit in times of isolation and seclusion. I enjoyed my free viewing and I took this liberty with pride. I like this privacy and I learnt and grew. I learn to understand the world more and what it takes to be complete. I won't strive for perfection but I will prevent people from been hurt because I don't like to be hurt myself too. It is through saying good words. Only nice words to listen to make others happy.Nobody is perfect. We all learn from our MISTAKES. :)

When is the best time to get married????

The best age to get married is at the age of 24, but in today's generation the mentality of maturity only takes place at the offset of 30. I got married at the age of 28, it was a match-making adventure and I took it at my mother's expense because she wanted me to get married one day. I was so busy working at the bank and from morning till night that when I reached the age of 26, my Mom decided to find me a life-partner. She and I went to enrol in a agency which she read in the Chinese Newspaper and we didn't get cheated. The club was now closed due to insufficient of funds to maintain the male counterparts.

I went dating with ten guys and I was naive. All of them asked me whether I could cook. Some gave me security because most of them are very formal and working class people. One offered me his car but I have to live with his sister. I should help with the groceries in using his car. I should contribute to petrol. I went out with an electrician/technician but it didn't work out. He relentlessly gave me up and say I was too naive.

I don't talk much but most of them pay for my food, only ONCE. Then I ended up with one guy who became my husband for 12 years of my life. He still is a part of me but I now stayed with my parents; back to square one. I have two sons aged 12 and nine going to a chinese private school. My eldest son is taking his UPSR this year, I hope he fares well. He's living up to it with all the privacy to it, living with Nanny Mcphee. My mother-in-laws has only TWO grandchildren of her OWN kin, that is my two sons who are now living under her care and guidance.

I LIKE MY LIFE NOW. It is Sweet Serendipity, Lee DeWyze. I am making up to my absence when Nanny Mcphee passes away and I am called home.....Happy family making.

22nd APRIL 2011 (GOOD FRIDAY)~One week before the Royal Wedding in Britain.

THE ROYAL WEDDING ON 29 APRIL 2011 (Friday), PRINCE WILLIAM AND PRINCESS KATE MIDDLETON.

Prince William and Princess Kate Middleton is getting married on 29 April 2011 (Friday) the next friday after my 42nd birthday. I've already decided to buy a chocolate cake that looks like this and celebrate it with my friends as below:

WE ARE GONNA PARTY AND HAVE A GREAT TIME! Wedding Bells for Prince William and Princess Kate Middleton but Party Bliss for MEEEEEE!

It's easier to dream of romance whether true or fantasy; some things you think but never consider writing. And to write about the bonds between just the guys that I've known, under the subject of romance, was quite challenging, until I began to write. There are many things, feelings and emotions shared; not in secret but openly that reveals a great deal about that bond. And after having compared it to the bonds that I've shared with women, I added them all, and called it "PLATONIC LOVE".

As for Valentine's day being just round the corner, I have prepared a poem specially for you: Platonic Love can be changed to sexual love in the end....

THE HANDSOME PRINCE.
Way off in the distance
In a far away land
There once lived this prince
That nobody could stand.

Oh he was worth a fortune
And was handsome as could be
But he had no love of his own
The one to set his heart free.

He lived way off to himself.
And made such a mournfull sound
He paced his floors up and down
But, no princess could be found.

Then came a knock upon his door,
So, he ran to the door with glee
There stood a raggid young lady
The poorest sight to see.

She begged him for food.
Her clothes were dirty and torn;
He told her to go away,
As he slammed the door and scourned.

Then she began to cry,
That same ol mournfull tune
As she looked up towards heaven
Staring at the face of the moon.

Soon the door began to open
As he motioned her to come in
She wiped away her tears
And gave him half a grin.

From that day on
Both their lives were changed
Now ain't it funny how life
Can make things re-arrange.

PRASANGKA YANG HILANG.
Makna apakah yang tersirat dalam kabus tipis di kaki gunung,
Sesejuk salju bukan membeku melihat takdir menjadi nyata;
Sesudah bencana menghempas ke tulang belulang akal,
Dalamnya bisa membunuh yakin.

Kini nyata menyerap mimpi menjadi bukti jua sakti,
Melihat kebaikan mereka mencari diri;
Walau terasing tetap berdiri,
Aku yang dulu disalah erti ikhlas disanggah prasangka
Kini direnjis tawa dan senyum...

SELAMAT MENYAMBUT HARI VALENTIN!

I AM A HUMANITARIAN.It feels good to make people happy.

Angelina Jolie, born Angelina Jolie Voight on June 4, 1975 is an American actress. She has received an Academy Award, two Screen Actors Guild Awards, and three Golden Globe Awards. Jolie promotes humanitarian causes, and is noted for her work with refugees as a Goodwill Ambassador for the United Nations High Commissioner for Refugees ( UNHCR ).She has been cited as one of the world's most attractive people, as well as the world's "most beautiful" women, titles for which she has received substantial media attention.

I,like, Angie, likes to be humanitarian too. I am a humanitarian in itself. Helping people makes you feel good, says Karen Burns, an autobiographer. I think God had put us in this world to be able to do good , not evil. I am not rich, I am not famous, I don't come from a rich family, I have enough to survive, as well as a family surrounded by love, I don't ask for the sky or the moon or the universe, I thank God that I have a pair of hands, a strong will power, and a natural gift of nature - a spark of humanity...

HOW TO REACH A NATURAL HIGH.( Know Your Limits )

We all want to feel good and occasionally have a feel of bliss and euphoria. Many people turn to drugs or alcohol to get this state of mind - Natural High. A natural high comes from the release of endophines, body chemicals that are known as "FEEL GOOD" chemicals since they give you a sense of well being and can even induce a blissful state. Here are some healthy ways to get a natural high :

1.  Get out your running shoes.
2.  Listen to classical or new age music.
3.  Meditate.
4.  Learn to laugh.
5.  Get a massage.
6.  Give something away to someone who needs it.
7.  Smell a fragrance / perfume.
8.  Having sexual intercourse at the G-Spot.
9.  Success! Being happy after winning a game / contest.
10.Getting good results in an exam - Be an achiever!
11.Going all out shopping and buying new clothes!
12.Having a sumptuous meal - HUNGER SATISFIED!

What are the Causes of a High Libido in Women????

Libido is a major concern for men and women when it's too high or too low. There are many causes of a high sex drive, but a slightly high libido is NORMAL to a certain extent.(LIMIT). Every woman is different and some women are naturally more sensitive to sexual stimuli than others. This means that touching, kissing and other things can cause a woman with a high libido to become sexually aroused more quickly, while other women struggle to get into the mood.

Somebody says that I have a mental problem. A few months back, I had worked with a doctor, I found myself becoming inspiring, humble and kind. I was one of the kindest people she met in my journey of life. She not only made me listened, but I never restricted her of her many questions and I always "answer" her. She said to me before leaving, "Ling, you are going to help many people. Don't ever give this up, or forget that you also inspired me in your journey..."


HOW TO PERSEVERE TO SUCCEED DESPITE STRUGGLES.
I'ts a piece of cake to maintain your enthusiasm when everything's peachy. But when challenges arise, it can become increasingly difficult. It's best to be prepared for bumps in the road, just because you're bound to hit them from time to time as you go through life.

The best thing you can do is work on your skills to boost and maintain your enthusiasm.It's such an important skill to have because it's your driving force that strengthens your will to succeed.

The key to finding happiness is to take action toward the things you enjoy. It's tempting to do nothing, which can be fun from time to time but overall it's an active life that brings the most pleasure and fulfillment!!!!

HOW TO COPE WITH A DISRESPECTFUL COWORKER.

No matter how hardworking, kind, loyal, dedicated, honest and utterly fabulous you are - there may still be people on your job who do not treat you with respect. This can be frustrating, but it shouldn't wreak havoc on your self-esteem or ruin your day. In fact, it really shouldn't even make you bat an eyelash.

As Karen Burns, career blogger and author of the book, THE AMAZING ADVENTURES OF WORKING GIRL, writes about disrespectful coworkers : "Recognise that something is wrong with that person.....(and) go about your life as if the problem person is not even there." In other words : "It's not you, it's them." Coping with a disrespectful coworker can be difficult, but once you learn how, you can go back to being your charming, amazing, focused, respectable self. Let these be tips that lead the way!

Detach, detach, detach! You absolutely must not let another person's disrespectful attitude penetrate your soul and damage your spirit. I should not bother and let it pass. Detach ourselves from it. From the problem situation before it dampens your spirit even further. It's really depriving. Sometimes it's good to break down in our own solitude. Crying helps to return our spirits to our innermost self.

Karen Burns writes," Don't let them see they are getting to you." I agree and encourage you to take it another step further: Don't let them get to you, period. Another person is just another person; another person is not a superpower, all-knowing god. Another person's opinion of you or behavior towards you has no bearing on who you really are.

Say, "It's not me, it's them." There are all kinds of reasons why people act disrespectful, but usually it boils down to the overblown egos they build to hide their insecurities and internal fears. People can be self-absorbed, unaware, immature, jealous or just clueless.Whatever the reasons, remember, another person's behavior is another person's behavior. It has nothing to do with you, so don't take it as a sign that something is wrong with you.

Sometimes it is outraging. Sometimes it makes you boil. I know there are times when stressfulness makes you boil. Take a breath. Drink a glass of water. Swallowing water cools down the system and I think people can relate better when they've settled their systems down. So now, you can think rationally. Without starting a fight.

Miranda Cosgrove -- Dancing Crazy (new song! 2010 with lyrics) HQ

Dancing like crazy...

"Something happens to you as a woman once you've given birth.You change on a cellular level.You change and are altered."

Nicole Mary Kidman, AC ( born 20 June 1967 ) is an Australian- American actress, Spokes model and humanitarian. After starring in a number of small Australian films and TV shows, Kidman's breakthrough was in the 1989 thriller Dead Calm. Kidman has been a Goodwill Ambassador for UNIFEM since 2006. In 2003, Kidman received her star on the Walk of Fame .In 2006, Kidman was made a Companion of the Order of Australia, Australia's highest civilian honour, and was also the highest-paid actress in the motion picture industry. As a result of being born to Australian parents in Hawaii, Kidman has dual citizenship of Australia and the United States.

"Something happens to you as a woman once you've given birth. You change on a cellular level. You change and are altered," - Nicole Kidman wants more children.....

I totally agree with Nicole Kidman. Before I was married or had any children, I was like all those girls out there, selfish, conceited, incomprehensible, uncompassionate, haughty, stubborn who wouldn't change. Well, "CHANGE" it was when my first child is borned..... I felt so heightened-up, not that I believed in change but I was, I simply love having that baby. He was cute. He was so adorable. He was my light, he was my soul, apart from his father whom I onced adored. When my second child came, I was even more light-hearted, I had planned for it. I had wanted it . I wanted to give my first born a companion. And a companion I did gave him. I gave him a brother to take care. To learn to take care, of his younger brother, younger of 3 years....

They were both my pride and joy. I took care of them. I fed them. I cleaned them. I nurtured them. I took them to nursery. I spent time with them at school. At home. Read stories to them at bedtime. Watch cartoons with them all the way. I also took pictures of their growing up hood. I bought tons and tons of milk powder and I spent all my money on baby diapers and baby clothes.Baby products. Medicinal needs for my two beautiful boys. I love them so much. Now, they have both grown up.

As I reflect upon my motherhood days, I suddenly recalled very clearly. MOTHERHOOD CHANGED ME. I was changed on a cellular level. I was altered into a woman of love and kindness. Most people say I am too generous. Perhaps that was my change. Instead of being arrogant like those bitches out there, I had stood my ground and became generous, forgiving, lovable, and comprehensible. At to me , I felt the change.

In fact I didn't know that motherhood can change me. But it did. I don't expect to have anymore babies if God would not persist, but I am thankful for the 'change' that most people would look for and would seek in a woman. The signs of maturity, in seeking the truth, the CHANGE that brought love to my life and that love is so everlasting  - like eternity...

Avenge the Selfish, Conceited, Stuck-Up Ones!

                        Journal Entry.
Things have gotten worse and worse. All the other girls are always ahead of me. I hate them. They are a distasteful group whose juvenile jeering made me yearn for the taunts of my neighbourhood children. I dream of wiping the smiles off their smug, pudgy faces. How dare they call me a sex-porn?????
                        But I fear that my dreams of revenge will just be dreams. The motor on my bicycle didn't work, probably because it wasn't attached to anything. All I did was make a lot of noise, weigh down the bicycle and scare the cats.
                        I must keep my spirits up. Not so much for myself as for my neighbours and my family members. I must not give up hope. If we do not feel like winners, we cannot win. To that end I will head to downtown to buy my shampoo. And I wanted it with an additional conditioner, some sort like 2 in 1, or 3 in 1 or maybe 4 in 1 to get to the coolest.
                        Whenever I ask myself, "Why go on?" I must answer, "Why not." Miracles do happen. And I did. I finally got my Shampoo with the highest content of conditioner, treatment and colour shine. Yahoo.
Avenge those gorgeous looking sexy chicks at the club, at the pub. My hair looks good. I feel great. Cool!