It's easier to dream of romance whether true or fantasy; some things you think but never consider writing. And to write about the bonds between just the guys that I've known, under the subject of romance, was quite challenging, until I began to write. There are many things, feelings and emotions shared; not in secret but openly that reveals a great deal about that bond. And after having compared it to the bonds that I've shared with women, I added them all, and called it "PLATONIC LOVE".

As for Valentine's day being just round the corner, I have prepared a poem specially for you: Platonic Love can be changed to sexual love in the end....

THE HANDSOME PRINCE.
Way off in the distance
In a far away land
There once lived this prince
That nobody could stand.

Oh he was worth a fortune
And was handsome as could be
But he had no love of his own
The one to set his heart free.

He lived way off to himself.
And made such a mournfull sound
He paced his floors up and down
But, no princess could be found.

Then came a knock upon his door,
So, he ran to the door with glee
There stood a raggid young lady
The poorest sight to see.

She begged him for food.
Her clothes were dirty and torn;
He told her to go away,
As he slammed the door and scourned.

Then she began to cry,
That same ol mournfull tune
As she looked up towards heaven
Staring at the face of the moon.

Soon the door began to open
As he motioned her to come in
She wiped away her tears
And gave him half a grin.

From that day on
Both their lives were changed
Now ain't it funny how life
Can make things re-arrange.

PRASANGKA YANG HILANG.
Makna apakah yang tersirat dalam kabus tipis di kaki gunung,
Sesejuk salju bukan membeku melihat takdir menjadi nyata;
Sesudah bencana menghempas ke tulang belulang akal,
Dalamnya bisa membunuh yakin.

Kini nyata menyerap mimpi menjadi bukti jua sakti,
Melihat kebaikan mereka mencari diri;
Walau terasing tetap berdiri,
Aku yang dulu disalah erti ikhlas disanggah prasangka
Kini direnjis tawa dan senyum...

SELAMAT MENYAMBUT HARI VALENTIN!

I AM A HUMANITARIAN.It feels good to make people happy.

Angelina Jolie, born Angelina Jolie Voight on June 4, 1975 is an American actress. She has received an Academy Award, two Screen Actors Guild Awards, and three Golden Globe Awards. Jolie promotes humanitarian causes, and is noted for her work with refugees as a Goodwill Ambassador for the United Nations High Commissioner for Refugees ( UNHCR ).She has been cited as one of the world's most attractive people, as well as the world's "most beautiful" women, titles for which she has received substantial media attention.

I,like, Angie, likes to be humanitarian too. I am a humanitarian in itself. Helping people makes you feel good, says Karen Burns, an autobiographer. I think God had put us in this world to be able to do good , not evil. I am not rich, I am not famous, I don't come from a rich family, I have enough to survive, as well as a family surrounded by love, I don't ask for the sky or the moon or the universe, I thank God that I have a pair of hands, a strong will power, and a natural gift of nature - a spark of humanity...

HOW TO REACH A NATURAL HIGH.( Know Your Limits )

We all want to feel good and occasionally have a feel of bliss and euphoria. Many people turn to drugs or alcohol to get this state of mind - Natural High. A natural high comes from the release of endophines, body chemicals that are known as "FEEL GOOD" chemicals since they give you a sense of well being and can even induce a blissful state. Here are some healthy ways to get a natural high :

1.  Get out your running shoes.
2.  Listen to classical or new age music.
3.  Meditate.
4.  Learn to laugh.
5.  Get a massage.
6.  Give something away to someone who needs it.
7.  Smell a fragrance / perfume.
8.  Having sexual intercourse at the G-Spot.
9.  Success! Being happy after winning a game / contest.
10.Getting good results in an exam - Be an achiever!
11.Going all out shopping and buying new clothes!
12.Having a sumptuous meal - HUNGER SATISFIED!

What are the Causes of a High Libido in Women????

Libido is a major concern for men and women when it's too high or too low. There are many causes of a high sex drive, but a slightly high libido is NORMAL to a certain extent.(LIMIT). Every woman is different and some women are naturally more sensitive to sexual stimuli than others. This means that touching, kissing and other things can cause a woman with a high libido to become sexually aroused more quickly, while other women struggle to get into the mood.

Somebody says that I have a mental problem. A few months back, I had worked with a doctor, I found myself becoming inspiring, humble and kind. I was one of the kindest people she met in my journey of life. She not only made me listened, but I never restricted her of her many questions and I always "answer" her. She said to me before leaving, "Ling, you are going to help many people. Don't ever give this up, or forget that you also inspired me in your journey..."


HOW TO PERSEVERE TO SUCCEED DESPITE STRUGGLES.
I'ts a piece of cake to maintain your enthusiasm when everything's peachy. But when challenges arise, it can become increasingly difficult. It's best to be prepared for bumps in the road, just because you're bound to hit them from time to time as you go through life.

The best thing you can do is work on your skills to boost and maintain your enthusiasm.It's such an important skill to have because it's your driving force that strengthens your will to succeed.

The key to finding happiness is to take action toward the things you enjoy. It's tempting to do nothing, which can be fun from time to time but overall it's an active life that brings the most pleasure and fulfillment!!!!

HOW TO COPE WITH A DISRESPECTFUL COWORKER.

No matter how hardworking, kind, loyal, dedicated, honest and utterly fabulous you are - there may still be people on your job who do not treat you with respect. This can be frustrating, but it shouldn't wreak havoc on your self-esteem or ruin your day. In fact, it really shouldn't even make you bat an eyelash.

As Karen Burns, career blogger and author of the book, THE AMAZING ADVENTURES OF WORKING GIRL, writes about disrespectful coworkers : "Recognise that something is wrong with that person.....(and) go about your life as if the problem person is not even there." In other words : "It's not you, it's them." Coping with a disrespectful coworker can be difficult, but once you learn how, you can go back to being your charming, amazing, focused, respectable self. Let these be tips that lead the way!

Detach, detach, detach! You absolutely must not let another person's disrespectful attitude penetrate your soul and damage your spirit. I should not bother and let it pass. Detach ourselves from it. From the problem situation before it dampens your spirit even further. It's really depriving. Sometimes it's good to break down in our own solitude. Crying helps to return our spirits to our innermost self.

Karen Burns writes," Don't let them see they are getting to you." I agree and encourage you to take it another step further: Don't let them get to you, period. Another person is just another person; another person is not a superpower, all-knowing god. Another person's opinion of you or behavior towards you has no bearing on who you really are.

Say, "It's not me, it's them." There are all kinds of reasons why people act disrespectful, but usually it boils down to the overblown egos they build to hide their insecurities and internal fears. People can be self-absorbed, unaware, immature, jealous or just clueless.Whatever the reasons, remember, another person's behavior is another person's behavior. It has nothing to do with you, so don't take it as a sign that something is wrong with you.

Sometimes it is outraging. Sometimes it makes you boil. I know there are times when stressfulness makes you boil. Take a breath. Drink a glass of water. Swallowing water cools down the system and I think people can relate better when they've settled their systems down. So now, you can think rationally. Without starting a fight.

Miranda Cosgrove -- Dancing Crazy (new song! 2010 with lyrics) HQ

Dancing like crazy...

"Something happens to you as a woman once you've given birth.You change on a cellular level.You change and are altered."

Nicole Mary Kidman, AC ( born 20 June 1967 ) is an Australian- American actress, Spokes model and humanitarian. After starring in a number of small Australian films and TV shows, Kidman's breakthrough was in the 1989 thriller Dead Calm. Kidman has been a Goodwill Ambassador for UNIFEM since 2006. In 2003, Kidman received her star on the Walk of Fame .In 2006, Kidman was made a Companion of the Order of Australia, Australia's highest civilian honour, and was also the highest-paid actress in the motion picture industry. As a result of being born to Australian parents in Hawaii, Kidman has dual citizenship of Australia and the United States.

"Something happens to you as a woman once you've given birth. You change on a cellular level. You change and are altered," - Nicole Kidman wants more children.....

I totally agree with Nicole Kidman. Before I was married or had any children, I was like all those girls out there, selfish, conceited, incomprehensible, uncompassionate, haughty, stubborn who wouldn't change. Well, "CHANGE" it was when my first child is borned..... I felt so heightened-up, not that I believed in change but I was, I simply love having that baby. He was cute. He was so adorable. He was my light, he was my soul, apart from his father whom I onced adored. When my second child came, I was even more light-hearted, I had planned for it. I had wanted it . I wanted to give my first born a companion. And a companion I did gave him. I gave him a brother to take care. To learn to take care, of his younger brother, younger of 3 years....

They were both my pride and joy. I took care of them. I fed them. I cleaned them. I nurtured them. I took them to nursery. I spent time with them at school. At home. Read stories to them at bedtime. Watch cartoons with them all the way. I also took pictures of their growing up hood. I bought tons and tons of milk powder and I spent all my money on baby diapers and baby clothes.Baby products. Medicinal needs for my two beautiful boys. I love them so much. Now, they have both grown up.

As I reflect upon my motherhood days, I suddenly recalled very clearly. MOTHERHOOD CHANGED ME. I was changed on a cellular level. I was altered into a woman of love and kindness. Most people say I am too generous. Perhaps that was my change. Instead of being arrogant like those bitches out there, I had stood my ground and became generous, forgiving, lovable, and comprehensible. At to me , I felt the change.

In fact I didn't know that motherhood can change me. But it did. I don't expect to have anymore babies if God would not persist, but I am thankful for the 'change' that most people would look for and would seek in a woman. The signs of maturity, in seeking the truth, the CHANGE that brought love to my life and that love is so everlasting  - like eternity...

Avenge the Selfish, Conceited, Stuck-Up Ones!

                        Journal Entry.
Things have gotten worse and worse. All the other girls are always ahead of me. I hate them. They are a distasteful group whose juvenile jeering made me yearn for the taunts of my neighbourhood children. I dream of wiping the smiles off their smug, pudgy faces. How dare they call me a sex-porn?????
                        But I fear that my dreams of revenge will just be dreams. The motor on my bicycle didn't work, probably because it wasn't attached to anything. All I did was make a lot of noise, weigh down the bicycle and scare the cats.
                        I must keep my spirits up. Not so much for myself as for my neighbours and my family members. I must not give up hope. If we do not feel like winners, we cannot win. To that end I will head to downtown to buy my shampoo. And I wanted it with an additional conditioner, some sort like 2 in 1, or 3 in 1 or maybe 4 in 1 to get to the coolest.
                        Whenever I ask myself, "Why go on?" I must answer, "Why not." Miracles do happen. And I did. I finally got my Shampoo with the highest content of conditioner, treatment and colour shine. Yahoo.
Avenge those gorgeous looking sexy chicks at the club, at the pub. My hair looks good. I feel great. Cool!

It's my cousin's birthday today.

Today is my cousin's birthday. We used to wear jeans a lot, all four of us. If I were to draw ourselves out, I, am the one, a Wiccan, would be the long hair girl with the hood. My own sister is the one wearing short pants, for she always like to wear shorts. The far left short-haired, and the far right one (cleopatra) are my two cousins, borned to my father's side. My Dad's two sister's daughters. All four of us girls are all married now. I am married to a Chinese, my sister, the one wearing shorts, married an African English Gentlemen, my two cousins, far left and far right, both married chinese men and the short-haired one has settled down in Johore while travelling working in Singapore. The other one ( far-right ) is currently working at an office in Puchong.

We were dynamic sisters and cousins and we were all in good terms with each other. We worked as a team. We all had the spirit in our lives. And before we settled down and have our own children, we say to ourselves, we will travel the world, as far as we can get, and roam the skies and enjoy to our heart's delight before we say goodbye and welcome the heartache of our lives. Thanks to our mothers!

Today is the cleopatra's birthday, so....arr...Happy Birthday, cousin sister! You are 43!

HOW TO PAY THE PRICE OF SUFFERING - Choose your suffering.

Be willing to pay the price for success. Commit to a worthwhile goal. If it's good for you, it's going to hurt. Let's dig into this a little more. So I won't cry.

One day, when my friend Todd and I were having lunch, he let me know the best piece of marital advice he ever received. He said, "Ling, it's up to you. Choose your suffering."
                    "Well, what the heck does that mean ," I wondered aloud. Thankfully Todd answered. "Choose your suffering. You know, everything has a price, and if you're willing to pay it, it's going to be tough, but you can do it. Just choose the suffering that's right for you, accept it, and then live with it."
                    "A-ha! A price for everything ! That's brilliant! Thanks Todd!" and I wrote down his little nugget, to think more about it one day. Choose your suffering. Pay the price for success! Commit to a worthwhile goal. If it's good for you, it's going to hurt. Let's dig and dealt with this before a blow.
                    Commitment : The Merriam - Webster dictionary defines commitment as " the state or an instance of being obligated or emotionally impelled." What does that really mean? I would say that making a commitment to something means you make a decision, and you stick to it, no matter how much it hurts, no matter what it costs, and you just stick to it.
                    This can't be too bad. Let's see, that requires accountability, either to yourself, your spouse, your boss, or whomever you share your goal or ideas with. That also requires integrity, to tell people when you're falling away from your commitment. You also have to be honest with yourself.
                    Lastly, that requires discipline. You have to be strong enough to hang in there, and do whatever it takes. Pay the price for success! Let me tell you what you get if you don't commit : You get something you don't want. You get something someone else chose for you.
                    You're more apt to get what you want, if you start by understanding there is a price to pay for this, and by realizing there's a price to pay for doing nothing. Everything, even nothing has a price. Are you willing to pay for nothing? It's motivation, it's not pressure......
                    Life is about taking chances - "Move out of your comfort zone. You can only grow if you are willing to feel awkward and uncomfortable when you try something new." Self-improvement - Inspiration. I am inspired..........I'll do it.